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Article by Ben Stiller
Mar 15, 2019
Mar 15, 2019
Actor Ben Stiller: "I met Syrian refugees living on a knife's edge, and
there are millions more".
Five minutes after I was introduced to Yazan, I already thought he might be
the coolest eight-year-old I have ever met. He has great hair. It’s black and
shiny, with some sort of purple mousse he’s put in especially for the
occasion. He’s incredibly friendly and has a smile that makes it impossible
not to smile back.
We are in the Bekaa Valley in eastern Lebanon where Yazan lives with his twin
sister Razan, who is as equally personable and cute; his brother, Salah; and
baby sister, Rajaa. We’re in their home, a two-room concrete shelter we found
at the end of a muddy alleyway off the main road to Syria, which is only about
an hour from here.
His parents fled Syria in the middle of the night when the shooting and
killing became too intense outside their home in Damascus. They bribed a
border guard and crossed into Lebanon. They thought they would return home in
three days. It’s been eight years.
Millions displaced, struggling to survive
Their story is not a unique one. I went to Lebanon last week with the UN
Refugee Agency, to meet refugees who have fled the Syrian conflict which has
gone on since Yazan was four months old. The conflict is complicated and while
a small number of people are starting to return home, the vast majority feel
it is not yet safe to do so. In Lebanon alone there are believed to be more
than a million displaced Syrians. In a country of only four million locals,
the issue is overwhelming. On a basic subsistence level, the refugees are
living on a knife’s edge.
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For Yazan’s father, Raed, who worked as a taxi driver back home, providing for
his family in Lebanon is incredibly hard. As a refugee he’s limited as to what
he can do for work. So, in addition to being deep in debt, they have been
constantly on the move.
The family’s three-day trip that has stretched to almost a decade, has been
harrowing. Binnana, Yazan’s 23-year-old mother, told me that there was a time
they lived in a stable when the twins were infants. They lived in a stall with
rats and other animals, where everything was dirty. It’s where she gave birth
to Salah. While the biblical imagery is hard to avoid, there is nothing divine
about this reality. They had gotten to the point where Raed considered selling
a kidney. A friend suggested selling their infant. Binana couldn’t do that.
When the children were hungry at night, she would tell them to imagine their
favorite meal and go to sleep dreaming about it, together. This shared
illusionary family meal would still leave them waking up hungry. In the end,
they found they could make a little money buying vegetables at a wholesale
market and giving them to eight-year-old Yazan to sell on a cart by the road.
They regretted having to do that, but thought it was better than having their
child beg. UNHCR Goodwill Ambassador Ben Stiller visiting an informal
settlement in the Bekaa Valley, Lebanon, standing with a Syrian refugee.
I turned to Yazan, who was doodling a picture of an airplane with some
markers, and asked him if he was a good salesman. He smiled that winning smile
and the answer was obvious.
We walked out to his vegetable cart by the road. And, as he showed me where he
worked, the reality of an eight-year-old having to provide for his family sunk
in. Even crossing the road was an ordeal, which would be enough to concern a
parent, yet here he was showing me how he actually supported his family.
For refugees, childhood is cut short
While physically surviving this crisis is challenging, the psychological
effects on these kids and parents is just as concerning.
I remembered talking to a 13-year-old boy I met a couple of years ago in
Jordan. His family had fled Aleppo in 2013. He worked in a garage in Amman,
the capital, for 12 to 14 hours a day to support his brothers and sisters.
When I told him he was a hard-working kid, he told me proudly that he isn't a
kid, he's a man. When I look in Yazan’s eyes, I still see a kid, but I wonder
how long that will be. The war has lasted his whole life. It’s all he knows.
Ben with children at Zouq Bhannine informal settlement in Lebanon in March
2019.
In northern Lebanon I met a troupe of puppeteers who go from settlement to settlement performing shows for refugee children about the different towns and landmarks in their home country of Syria. While the show is entertaining for these children who are living in a bleak environment, its main purpose is to connect the kids with a place they don’t remember or, for most, have never been. The man who performs the show told me his concern as a Syrian is that these kids are the future of his country. They are the ones who will have to rebuild Syria. How can they do that if they don’t know anything about their homeland?
So, what can we do? In the face of complicated international conflicts that
are the root cause of these problems, we need to put a face to the numbers of
innocent people affected. Humanize it. We need to cut through the political
malaise, especially as it fades from the headlines, to remind the world this
is a humanitarian crisis of epic proportions. There are more than 68 million
displaced people in the world. There are more than 5.6 million Syrian
refugees. Within Syria itself, there are 6.6 million more internally
displaced.
We need to support organizations like UNHCR, the UN Refugee Agency, so they
can reach these people in need and provide them with life-saving support like
shelter, medical assistance, access to education and psychosocial services to
help them cope. On a broader level, we need to support the countries that are
overwhelmed on an infrastructure level.
And, most importantly, we need to stand with these people. We must remember a
refugee is a person, not a statistic. A refugee is a parent trying to protect
their child from rats in a stable. A refugee is a boy doodling a picture of an
airplane, who wants to someday be a pilot, but right now is selling vegetables
on a busy road in a place that isn’t home.
Ben Stiller
UNHCR Goodwill Ambassador
Published 10:15 AM EDT Mar 15, 2019 on USA TODAY
Article by Ben Stiller
January 25, 2017
One percent. That is the surprising percentage of the world’s 21 million
refugees who will resettle in another country after fleeing their war-torn
homes. I had to ask the United Nations worker twice. “Just one percent of all
refugees?” “Yes, and the number is shrinking.”
I was talking with a UNHCR Field Officer as he was verifying the biometric
data of a Syrian family being interviewed for resettlement at the UN’s refugee
registration center in Amman, Jordan. The fact that such a small fraction of
those displaced people are even identified for resettlement to the United
States or other countries — after undergoing a rigorous vetting process —
seems to fly in the face of the politics and news about refugees.
This was one of many things I learned on a recent trip with UNHCR, the UN
Refugee Agency, to visit camps set up with the Jordanian government and a
number of international NGOs, to deal with the influx of over 655,000 fleeing
to Jordan from the civil war there since 2011.
Like a lot of us, I am trying to reconcile how to be open-hearted and
empathetic to the plight of our fellow human beings while also being concerned
about our national security. The problem is complicated, and sometimes the
easiest way to deal with it, which I have personally been guilty of, is to
ignore it. We become anesthetized to the constant news of suffering children
in Aleppo and horrific violence and destruction in the region. How do we help
those in need in a way that makes a difference and doesn’t compromise our
safety here and abroad?
I, Ben Stiller, star of Dodgeball, do not have the answer. But by meeting with
refugees and those assisting them, I was able to get a better sense of some of
the realities.
Nobody wants to be a refugee.
This was the running theme at Azraq Camp, which sits in the middle of the
Jordanian desert. Approximately 54,000 of the 655,000 registered refugees in
Jordan from Syria are here. Over half are children. They live in small,
anonymous shelters with no electricity (though the solar grid comes online
soon), no running water and dirt floors.
This is where I talked to Mohamed and Alaa Salah and their two children.
Mohamed is a veterinarian; Alaa, an agricultural engineer. They are both young
and vivacious. They fled the carnage when bombs hit their neighborhood in Homs
and the trauma damaged their 4-year-old son Hussain’s vision. They are
grateful for safety, but stunned by their plight. “I miss my family so much,”
Alaa said. “But right now I can’t take my children back to death.”
These people want to go home.
Azraq’s makeshift marketplace has shops run by an equal number of Syrians and
local Jordanians. I asked one storekeeper, from Aleppo, who sold everything
from soap to soccer balls, if he wanted to go back. He looked at me as if I
was asking him whether he liked to breathe. After a moment, with a deep-eyed
smile, he said, “even the word ‘Syria’ gives me chills, because I so want to
go home.”
These children need a chance, for the world’s sake.
In the lower-income neighborhoods of Amman, one in five refugees are living
with the help of UNHCR cash-assistance programs that use iris scanners to
prevent fraud. One couple I met there, Haitham and his wife Um Khalil, fled
Aleppo three years ago with their eight children. While they are safe in
Amman, the danger they escaped continues for their family members remaining in
Syria. Um Khalil’s sister was killed just three months ago when she stepped on
a mine going to pick up clothes for her five children…
Haitham’s son, Khalil, is thirteen, with a cherubic face and round green eyes
that look like they have seen too much. His hands were stained with engine
grease. His father explained the boy worked as a mechanic, the previous day
from 7 am to 11 pm, to support his family. His family needs his income to
survive. Taking that in, I turned to Khalil and said that was quite a
responsibility for a boy. He listened to the translator then quickly and
proudly replied, “I’m a man, not a boy.”
While Khalil works, his twin sisters, like many refugee children, don’t have
access to education. I had an opportunity to meet with Jordanian King Abdullah
II and Queen Rania, who explained that due to the crushing load on
under-supported host countries like Jordan, which already has 170,000 Syrian
children in their free public schools, they can’t accommodate them all. Young
girls like Khalil’s sisters can help around the house but as they get older
they run the risk of being targeted by terrorist groups who indoctrinate
at-risk youths.
How we can help?
Every family I met shared a pride for their home country and the hope to live
a normal life. While a few were ready to move on to wherever the resettlement
process might take them, all professed a profound desire to eventually return
home. These are sentiments we — the public — can all connect with. UNHCR’s
#WithRefugees campaign is one way in which communities can reflect their
compassion.
I hope the new Trump Administration will conclude that compassion and security
are not mutually exclusive. On the contrary, they are mutually reinforcing.
The roots of the Syria refugee problems are complicated, and so are the
solutions. While a resolution of the conflict should be a priority, we must
support the humanitarian programs of UNHCR. We need to support our allies like
Jordan, who, with an astonishing 20 percent of their population made up of
fleeing Syrians, cannot carry the burden alone. What countries like Jordan do
profoundly affects us.
In this time of unrest in the Middle East and change in our country, when
frustration and xenophobia seem to dominate our news cycle and social media, I
hope we can all look at the faces of those we fear and see what is sometimes
hardest of all to recognize: ourselves.
Ben Stiller
Published January 25, 2017 on TIME
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